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ONLINE: The Mind, Body, and Spirit Series with Mixtress Ryder



A series of classes focused on bottom education with Mixtress Ryder

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Event Details

Date: 04/14/2021

Start time: 18:00

End time: 20:00

Venue: Wicked Grounds Annex ONLINE

Address: , San Francisco, , 94103


NOTE: This will be an online class via Zoom. Zoom information will be sent to all participants one hour before the event.

The series focuses on the insight, recognition, and development of a bottom-centric skill set and processing tool bag. It begins with Speaking From the Bottom which offers techniques for communication and guidance thru the mental journey of a bottom. Hit me Harder explores skills utilized in the physical processing of pain and pleasure to further a scene. Cultivating Your Why centers around the spiritual journey we take as bottoms and the importance of self understanding. Together these classes serve to empower and strengthen the bottoming community

Wednesday April 14th 6-8pm PDT

Hit Me Harder! A Bottom’s Communication To Deepen a Scene

Hit Me Harder is a class which focuses on pain processing techniques and a new take on how to get the most out of safewords. The class then moves into giving bottoms the tools to play a larger role in the negotiation process. We will offer time for a group discussion as well as a short demo with practical application of the material presented. While this classs focal point is bottoms we will be touching base on how tops can take utilize their self aware bottoms to walk, run and push the edge of their pain threshold.

Wednesday May 5th 6-8pm PDT

Speaking From the Bottom

Learn how to better communicate your needs within a power dynamic, and how to do so with respect, devotion and service. Speaking from the Bottom will give you the space to empower your top with your own open and honest communication, deepening your relationship and dynamic.

Speaking from the bottom is not some perfect call and response, especially when everyone’s dynamic is different. It is intent and consistent conscious choice. The class will cover a range of things that effect communication skills ranging from NVC to body language and negotiated dynamic structure. The curriculum is built for those in all ranges of power exchanges such as DD/lg, D/s, M/s and all the things in between!

Wednesday June 2nd 6-8pm PDT

Cultivating Your Why: Building a path of least resistance to deepening kink fulfillment

Cultivating Your Why is an overview of the components that determine how we form decisions/conclusions and their place in growth oriented relationships. With the help of the Myers-Briggs personality test, let’s work together to streamline your kink fulfillment. Thru the aligning and understanding of core values with different learning modalities, we can learn to be conscious of how our perceptions of an event or task can change depending on where we chose to take it. The course is a mix of lecture, discussion, and a short demo.


Mixtress Ryder has been part of this community for 7 years now. Kink plays a role in their daily life. Their journey in kink has offered them opportunities to rip open their mind and the world as they thought they knew it. Mixtress Ryder wants to play a larger role in the shaping and support of the world around them, and to that end they are currently focused on expanding Bottom centered class’s within their community. If you have any ideas for classes you would like to see offered please reach out! Mixtress Ryder also offers a wide range of private lessons for anything from one on one to couples+ including all roles.


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$15 – $35. Advance tickets required through Brown Paper Tickets.

We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.

The regular ticket is $25. This is what most people should pay.

The $15 ticket is offered for those for whom the $25 ticket would be a barrier to participation. If $25 is too much, we take your word for it! Just pay $15.

Have a great salary? Feeling generous? Paying at the $35 level allows us to make the discounted ticketing available to others who need it. 🙂

So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.


Zoom now provides free closed captioning.

This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will not be recorded and is not available for later viewing.


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Refund Policy

Shomee's general policy is to allow customers to request full or partial refunds up to 14 days after order completion, and must provide a reason for the refund request. Sellers (the event creator) can also specify their own terms. Refunds are not guaranteed.

Cancellation / Return / Exchange Policy

An event ticket, booking, or other virtual product purchase is considered a completed order at the time of purchase. Physical orders are considered completed when the product has been shipped. Sellers (the event creator) may also define their own terms related to cancellation and reschedules of events and booking engagements due to COVID-19 impacts, low enrollment, inclement weather, or other circumstances which would make the event non-viable.


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